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Saturday, September 19, 2020

शिक्षा नीति 2020 : मेरी नजऱ | Education Policy 2020 : My Views

 



शिक्षा नीति 2020 : मेरी नजऱ


शिक्षा नीति वो शैक्षिक दिशा निर्देश हैं, जो भारत सरकार द्वारा घोषित किये जाते हैं। इस नीति के द्वारा सरकार देश की शिक्षा व्यवस्था की दिशा निर्धारित करती है। शिक्षा नीति में उन सभी विषयों का उल्लेख होता है, जो सरकार के अनुसार देश की शिक्षा व्यवस्था के सुधार और उन्नति के लिए आवश्यक हैं।


महत्वपूर्ण यह है कि शिक्षा नीति में दिए गए दिशा निर्देश संवैधानिक दृष्टि से सिद्धांत के रूप में तो देखे जा सकते हैं, परंतु इसके अतिरिक्त यह स्वयं में कोई अधिकार नही रखते और इस कारण सरकार इन्हें प्रवत्त करने के लिए संवैधानिक एवं न्यायिक दृष्टि से बाध्य नहीं है।


2020 में घोषित शिक्षा नीति स्वतन्त्र भारत के इतिहास में आयी तीसरी बड़ी शिक्षा नीति है।


भारत की प्रथम शिक्षा नीति सन 1968 में कोठारी आयोग की रिपोर्ट के आधार पर श्रीमती इंदिरा गांधी द्वारा घोषित की गई थी। उस शिक्षा नीति का रुझान सभी को एक समान शिक्षा अवसर देने और 14 वर्ष की आयु तक निःशुल्क और अनिवार्य शिक्षा प्रदान करने पर था। उस समय यह दोनों ही दिशा निर्देश भारतीय एकता और अखंडता के लिए आवश्यक थे।


भारत की दूसरी शिक्षा नीति सन 1986 में श्री राजीव गांधी द्वारा लायी गई थी। उस शिक्षा नीति का केंद्र शिक्षा के अधिकार को गरीब, पिछड़ों, दलितों इत्यादि तक पंहुचाना था। उस नीति में पहली बार छात्रों के लिए छात्रवृत्ति, और जो नागरिक आर्थिक समस्याओं के चलते बच्चों को विद्यालय भेजने में असमर्थ हैं उनके लिए प्रोत्साहन राशि कि बात की गई थी। इसके अतिरिक्त शिक्षा नीति में पहली बार स्वतंत्र शिक्षा संस्थानों की भी बात भी की गई थी। शिक्षा व्यवस्था को सुदृण करने के लिए देश की जीडीपी का 6% प्रतिवर्ष शिक्षा बजट के लिए आरक्षित करने का उल्लेख भी शिक्षा नीति में था।


सन 1992 में श्री पी.वी. नरसिम्हा राव के नेतृत्व में दूसरी शिक्षा नीति में कुछ संशोधन किये गए।


अब 28 वर्ष के एक बड़े अंतराल के बाद भारत की तीसरी शिक्षा नीति श्री नरेंद्र मोदी के नेतृत्व में लाई गई है। 2020 में आई शिक्षा नीति के प्रमुख दिशा निर्देश इस प्रकार हैं :


1) शिक्षा के अनिवार्य अधिकार(RTE) को 6 से 14 वर्ष की आयु से बढ़ाकर 3 से 18 वर्ष करने का उल्लेख

2) प्रारंभिक बाल शिक्षा व्यवस्था और देखभाल पर ज़ोर

3) छात्र शिक्षा के प्रथम पाँच वर्ष तक मातृभाषा के आधार पर शिक्षा देने पर टिप्पणी

4) विश्‍वविद्यालय अनुदान आयोग (UGC) और अखिल भारतीय तकनीकी शिक्षा परिषद (AICTE) के विघटन की आवश्यकता पर बल

5) उच्च शिक्षा के क्षेत्र में एमफिल को रद्द करने की बात

6) उच्च शिक्षा में बहु विकास विकल्प की आवश्यकता पर ज़ोर

7) शिक्षा प्रणाली के मूलभूत ढांचे को 10+2 से 5+3+3+4 में बदलने का उल्लेख

8) शिक्षा में क्रिटिकल थिंकिंग के प्रयोग-प्रसार पर टिप्पणी

9) शिक्षकों की नियुक्ति में पारदर्शिता रखनें और शिक्षा मित्रों अथवा अतिथि शिक्षकों की नियुक्ति पर रोक लगाने की बात

10) विभिन्न विद्यालयों में सीमित संसाधनों के साझा प्रयोग की आवश्यकता पर ज़ोर

11) शिक्षा नीति में सरकार ने छात्रों के विद्यालय छोड़ने के प्रतिशत को लेकर चिंता जताई एवं उचित क़दम उठाकर आगामी 10 वर्षों में 100% बच्चों को माध्यमिक शिक्षा प्राप्त करवाने के लक्ष्य की बात रखी

12) एक नए राष्ट्रीय शिक्षा आयोग के गठन की आवश्यकता का भी उल्लेख किया गया

13) जीडीपी के 6% को शिक्षा आवश्यकताओं की पूर्ति के लिये आरक्षित करने की बात भी की गई



शिक्षा नीति में आये कुछ नए दिशा निर्देश और मेरे विचार :


1) प्रारंभिक बाल शिक्षा व्यवस्था और देखभाल : मानव मस्तिष्क का अधिकांश विकास 7-8 वर्ष की आयु तक हो जाता है, इसकी आवश्यकता समझते हुए सरकार ने शिक्षा नीति में निःशुल्क प्रारंभिक शिक्षा पर बल दिया है। मेरे विचार में यह एक उत्तम कदम है।


2) शिक्षा प्रणाली के मूलभूत ढांचे को 10+2 से 5+3+3+4 बदलने का उल्लेख : यह एक महत्वपूर्ण बात है क्योंकि मनुष्य जीवन में कई चरण हैं और शिक्षा भी उसी आधार पर होनी चाहिए, वर्तमान शिक्षा व्यवस्था में प्रयुक्त 10+2 मेरे विचार में उपयुक्त नहीं है।


3) शिक्षकों की नियुक्ति में पारदर्शिता : यह एक उचित बात है, इस प्रकार दोषपूर्ण सरकारी तंत्र की वजह से हो रहे शिक्षकों के शोषण पर रोक लगेगी और अच्छे शिक्षकों को उचित अवसर भी प्राप्त होंगे, इसके चलते समय के साथ शिक्षा स्तर में भी सुधार होगा।


4) उच्च शिक्षा में बहुविकास विकल्प की आवश्यकता पर ज़ोर : यह एक अच्छा कदम है क्योंकि आर्थिक समस्याओं के चलते बहुत से विद्यार्थी उच्च शिक्षा संस्थानों में प्रवेश तो लेते हैं पर उन्हें पूरा नहीं कर पाते, इस स्थिति में समय और शिक्षा को महत्व देते हुए 1 वर्ष में सर्टिफिकेट, 2 वर्ष में डिप्लोमा और तीन वर्ष में डिग्री देने की बात की गई है।


5) विश्‍वविद्यालय अनुदान आयोग (UGC) और अखिल भारतीय तकनीकी शिक्षा परिषद (AICTE) के विघटन की आवश्यकता पर बल : मेरे विचार में किसी भी संस्थान को शिक्षा क्षेत्र में सभी अधिकार देना ठीक नही है, इस कारण ऐसी संस्थाओं का विघटन शिक्षा स्तर में सुधार के लिए आवश्यक है।



दिशा निर्देशों को लेकर उठ रहे विवाद और असमंजस की स्थिति :


1) प्रारंभिक शिक्षा मातृभाषा के आधार पर हो : इस दिशा निर्देश को लेकर जनता में असमंजस की स्थिति बनी हुई है, कुछ लोग इसे नई दिशा में उत्तम कदम बता रहे हैं तो कुछ इसे वर्तमान शिक्षा व्यवस्था को अशक्त करने की कोशिश कह रहे हैं।


मेरे विचार में शिक्षार्थी आधार के लिए प्रारंभिक शिक्षा मातृभाषा में होनी चाहिए, सत्य यह भी है की इस दिशा निर्देश में कुछ नया नहीं है और इसका उल्लेख हमें पिछली दोनों शिक्षा नीतियों में भी मिलता है।


2) शिक्षा में क्रिटिकल थिंकिंग का प्रयोग प्रसार : इस दिशा निर्देश में भी लोगों का मत बटा दिखायी देता है, मेरे विचार में इस विषय पर केवल टिप्पणी मात्र कर देने से, शिक्षा क्षेत्र में क्रिटिकल थिंकिंग के प्रयोग-प्रसार में सहायता नहीं होगी, यह अति आवश्यक विषय है और सरकार को मार्गदर्शन हेतु गहन दिशा निर्देश देने चाहिए थे परंतु नई शिक्षा नीति में इसका अभाव प्रतीत होता है।


3) जीडीपी के 6% को शिक्षा आवश्यकताओं की पूर्ति के लिये आरक्षित करने का उल्लेख : इस दिशा निर्देश को लेकर जनमानस अति उत्साहित प्रतीत हो रहा है क्योंकि वर्तमान में जीडीपी का लगभग 4% ही शिक्षा के लिये प्रयोग होता है।


मेरे विचार में यह अच्छा कदम है परंतु नया नहीं, स्वतंत्र भारत में आई सभी शिक्षा नीतियों के दिशा निर्देशों में जीडीपी का 6% शिक्षा के क्षेत्र में प्रयोग हो इसका उल्लेख मिलता है।


4) विभिन्न विद्यालयों में सीमित संसाधनों के साझा प्रयोग की आवश्यकता पर ज़ोर : इस दिशा निर्देश को लेकर भी बुद्धिजीवी बटे हुए प्रतीत होते हैं, एक पक्ष के अनुसार कुछ संसाधन नहीं होने से साझा संसाधन होने बेहतर हैं। परंतु इसके साथ यह संदेह भी जताया जा रहा है की इस नीति की आड़ में सरकार अपने उत्तरदायित्व से पीछे हट रही है और यदि इस प्रकार संसाधनों को प्रयोग में लाया गया तो संभवतः वो किसी के लिए भी लाभप्रद नहीं रह पायेंगे।


5) उच्च शिक्षा के क्षेत्र में एमफिल को रद्द करने की बात : इस दिशा निर्देश को लेकर शिक्षित वर्ग बटा हुआ है, एक वर्ग रिसर्च के आधार के रूप में इसे देखता है और दूसरा इसके अस्तित्व पर ही सवाल खड़े कर रहा है।


मेरे विचार में जो छात्र एमफिल करते हैं, उनका गंतव्य भी पीएचडी ही होता है। इस आधार पर देखें तो एमफिल की अलग से कोई विशेष आवश्यकता प्रतीत नहीं होती है।



मंशा को लेकर संशय :


1) शिक्षा नीति में आर्थिक रूप से कमजोर वर्ग(EWS) को लेकर निर्देशों के विषय में पूर्णतः चुप्पी साधी गई है। यह शांति इस कानून को अशक्त करने की दिशा में संकेत देती प्रतीत होती है।


2) नई नीति में शिक्षा के क्षेत्र में असमानताओं को कम करने की दिशा में कोई ठोस निर्देश नहीं मिलते, अर्थात पिछड़ा वर्ग के शिक्षा स्तर सुधार की दिशा में कोई उपरोक्त कदम लेती यह नीति प्रतीत नहीं होती है।


3) यूपीए सरकार के कार्यकाल में शिक्षा के अनिवार्य अधिकार(RTE) के अंतर्गत, शिक्षा स्तर उत्थान के लिए 2009 में कुछ कारगर नीतियाँ लायी गईं थी, नई नीति आवरण में तो पुरानी नीति का विस्तार लगती है परंतु यदि गहनता से देखें तो कुछ निर्देश अधिकार को निःशक्त करने की दिशा में संदेह भी उत्पन्न करते हैं।



मेरा अवलोकन और विचार :


मेरी दृष्टि में नई शिक्षा नीति को लेकर न हमें अति उत्साहित होने की आवश्यकता है और न ही निरुत्साहित होने की, आवश्यकता है तो केवल इसे समझने की और सम्पूर्णता में इसका अवलोकन करने की।


मैंने प्रारंभ में कहा शिक्षा नीति शिक्षा की दिशा में केवल दिशा निर्देश हैं और यह अपने आप में कोई संवैधानिक या न्यायिक अधिकार नहीं रखते। तो प्रत्येक सरकार नीतियाँ तो बहुत उत्तम बनाती है पर किसी कानूनी या संवैधानिक बाध्यता के न होते, इन्हें प्रयुक्त केवल कुछ अंशों में करती है और वह भी केवल अपनी आवश्यकता और राजनैतिक रुझान के अनुसार।


भारत के परिप्रेक्ष्य में देखें तो शिक्षा नीति के केवल 15%-20% दिशा निर्देश ही किसी कानून या संविधानिक अधिकार में परिवर्तित हो पाते हैं और वो अधिकार ही  वास्तविक रूप में शिक्षा व्यवस्था का स्तर औऱ दिशा निर्धारित करने में उपयोगी होते हैं।


मेरे विचार में नई शिक्षा नीति उत्तम है परंतु इससे पहले आई शिक्षा नीतियाँ भी अपने समय और आवश्यकताओं के अनुसार श्रेष्ट थीं। अतः देखना यह है की सरकार की कथनी और करनी में कितना समन्वय या भिन्नता हमें देखने को मिलती हैं क्योंकि अंत मे वही मंशा हमारी शिक्षा व्यवस्था की दशा और दिशा तय करेगी।


--विव 
(विवेक शुक्ला)

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शिक्षा प्रणाली में विद्या का अभाव | Shiksha Pranali Mein Vidya Ka Abhav 




शिक्षित होना हमारे व्यक्तित्व विकास के लिए आवश्यक है, छात्रों में बढ़ती प्रतिस्पर्धा इस दिशा की ओर संकेत भी देती है। सारांश में कहें तो शिक्षा प्रणाली के अनुसार अंक प्रतिशत छात्रों की विद्वता का सूचक है और यही वो मानक है जो छात्रों के भविष्य को रेखांकित करता है।

परंतु क्या यह मानक सच में विद्वता को रेखांकित करने में समर्थ है? यदि है, तो प्रतिवर्ष छात्र आत्महत्याओं में बढ़ता प्रतिशत किस ओर संकेत दे रहा है। यदि नही, तो क्या यह कोई भ्रम है जो छात्रों को चिंता का मार्ग दिखा जीवन राह से भटका रहा है? इस प्रश्न का उत्तर अत्यंत जटिल है।
 
एक प्रश्न और है, वह सत्य में आपको विचलित कर सकता है कि हमारे शिक्षण स्थानों में शिक्षा का तो स्तर है पर क्या विद्या का भी कोई स्थान है?
 
यदि है, तो मूलतः उसका कोई प्रतिबिंब हमें आजकल बच्चों के आचरण में क्यों नहीं दिखता। यदि नहीं, तो हम शिक्षालय को विद्यालय कह कर अपनी अज्ञानता का प्रसार क्यों करते हैं। हम शिक्षित जनों को विद्वान कहने में संकोच क्यों नही करते और यदि वो विद्वान हैं तो विद्वता कहाँ है?
 
समस्या का समाधान करना है तो सर्वप्रथम समस्या को पूर्णतः समझना आवश्यक है। बिना परिप्रेक्ष्य समझें हम निवारण हेतु प्रयत्नशील नहीं रह सकते यह मानव प्रवृत्ति है।
 
मूल प्रश्न यह है कि शिक्षा क्या है? यदि यह विद्या नहीं तो विद्या क्या है? और यदि, साधारण जीवन में शिक्षा का अभाव नहीं है तो विद्या का बोध और अनुसरण क्यों आवश्यक है?
 
शिक्षा को यदि हम परिभाषित करें तो यह लिखित एवं भौतिक ज्ञान है, यह वो प्रतिलिपि अथवा जानकारी है जिसका अनुसरण कर हम और हमारी सभ्यता आधुनिक उन्नति और प्रगति की दिशा में निरंतर बढ़ती है। भारतवर्ष में होती उन्नति एवं प्रगति हमारे बीच में बढ़ते शिक्षा स्तर का परिचायक है।
 
हमारे समाज में अधिकांश जनों के लिए यह उन्नति ही जीवन आधार है, उनके लिए ये ही मानवता और सभ्यता के निरंतर अग्रसर होने का सूचक भी है। तो फ़िर, विद्या का स्थान ही कहाँ रह जाता है, यदि इसकी आवश्यकता ही प्रतीत नहीं होती है?
 
हम शायद यह भूल जाते हैं कि यदि शब्द ज्ञान ही मानवता का परिचायक होता तो इस सृष्टि को कभी विद्वता की आवश्यकता ही न पड़ी होती।
 
विद्या को यदि हम परिभाषित करें तो पायेंगे कि यह जीव मुक्ति का आधार है। इस के आभाव में सदाचार, मानवीय कर्तव्यों, आत्मबोध, संस्कार, जीवन के उद्देश्य, सही गलत के मध्य भेद कर पाना संभव ही नहीं।

शिक्षा हमें प्रगति और जिज्ञासा तो देती है, परंतु चिंता, अहंकार और तामस प्रवृत्तियों से भी भर देती है। विद्या मन को स्थिर रख मुक्ति की राह उद्घोषित करती विभा है, यह चिंता, अंधविश्वास और अहंकार को हर लेती है।
 
यह अपने प्रकाश से मनुष्य के भीतर नव ऊर्जा का संचार और जीवन के उद्देश्य के प्रति जागरूकता का बीज रोपित भी करती है। विद्या के अभाव में मनुष्य किसी भी ज्ञान को अर्जित कर लेने के पश्चात भी मस्तिष्क से पशु ही रहता है।
 
हमारे वेद, पुराण और यहाँ तक की पंचतंत्र की कथाएं, विद्या का अगाध स्रोत हैं। उदहारण स्वरूप: कृष्ण-सुदामा की कथा, दधीचि का त्याग, दानवीर शिबि, हरिश्चन्द्र और कर्ण की गाथाएं, सावित्री-सत्यवान कथा, चार विद्वानों की शेर को जीवित करने की कथा इत्यादि सभी हमें सही गलत का भेद करने में सहायक हैं और जीवन उद्देश्य एवं जन कल्याण की राह भी दिखाती हैं।
 
आज के परिप्रेक्ष्य में देखें तो शिक्षा प्रणाली के अंक प्रतिशत मानक के कारण छिड़ा रण छात्रों में मूलतः चिंता और संताप भर रहा है। विद्या के आभाव में केवल शिक्षा के मद में झूमता युवा अपनें कर्तव्यों से विमुख हो केवल अतिउन्नति की दिशा में अग्रसर है। इसके परिणाम स्वरूप भारतवर्ष में बढ़ती आत्महत्या की दर, असहिष्णुता, वृद्धाश्रम, धर्मगुरुओं और राजनेताओं का बिन आंकलन समर्थन, धर्मों के बीच बढ़ता विवाद इत्यादि इसी उद्देश्य हीन व्यक्तित्व का प्रतिबिंब मात्र है। इतना ही नहीं प्रकृति और वायु में घुलता गरल, ग्लोबल वार्मिंग इत्यादि भी कर्तव्य विहीन इसी आधुनिक उन्नति के परिणाम हैं।
 
इस असामाजिक अराजक उन्नति का उत्तरदायित्व केवल शिक्षा प्रणाली के कंधों पर रखना भी उचित नहीं है। स्मरण रहे, शिशु के पहले शिक्षक और गुरु दोनों माता पिता होते हैं। हम सब और हमारा समाज देश को इस स्तिथि में लाने के लिए बराबर के उत्तरदायी हैं।
 
हमारे भारतवर्ष ने शिक्षा दर में उन्नति की है अब समय है शिक्षा प्रणाली में विद्या को शिक्षा के समान अधिकार देने का, अंततः विद्या और शिक्षा का समावेश ही सही मायनों में हमारे युवाओं को दिशा दिखायेगा, जिसके फलस्वरूप हमारा देश जन कल्याण और मानव प्रगति के मार्ग पर अग्रसर हो सकेगा।
 
विद्या का अनुसरण कर ही प्रकृति का संतुलन बना रह सकता है, अन्यथा यह आधुनिक विकास आध्यात्मिक गुणों के अभाव में सृष्टि का पूर्णतः नाश करने में समर्थ है।


--विव
(विवेक शुक्ला)



Sunday, August 23, 2020

क्षमाप्रार्थी | Kshamaprarthi





 क्षमाप्रार्थी | Kshamaprarthi

बिना वजह अब तुमसे मैं संवेदना नही दिखाऊंगी,
सच तो यह है कि तुमको मैं लाचार देख न पाऊंगी
अब समय आ गया है जब तुमको सम्मान से जीना सिखाऊंगी,
क्षमाप्रार्थी हूँ पर मैं बुढ़ापे की लाठी ना बन पाऊंगी।

एक धूमिल सी स्मृति है जब मैं उंगली थामे चलती थी,
फिर हाथ छोड़कर भी तुमने, मुझ मे विश्वास दिखाया था,
समय आ गया है जब दूर खड़ी होकर, तुममें भरोसा वही जगाऊंगी,
क्षमाप्रार्थी हूँ पर मैं बुढ़ापे की लाठी ना बन पाऊंगी।

याद है अब भी जब तुमने रंग कई दिखलाये थे,
फिर एक दिन तुमने साथ बैठकर उनका मोल बताया था,
समय आ गया है जब मैं तुमको जीवन के रंग नए दिखाऊंगी,
क्षमाप्रार्थी हूँ पर मैं बुढ़ापे की लाठी ना बन पाऊंगी।

हल्का सा कुछ याद है मुझको जब तुमने मेरे आंसू पोछे थे,
फिर एक दिन तुमने मेरा कठिनाई से द्वंद कराया था,
समय है वो जब मैं तुमको मुश्किल में हंसना सिखाऊंगी,
क्षमाप्रार्थी हूँ पर मैं बुढ़ापे की लाठी ना बन पाऊंगी।

धुंधला सा स्मरण है जब मेरा खुद से विश्वास डगमगाया था,
तब तुमने मेरा हाथ पकड़कर थोड़ा सा हड़काया था,
अब वक्त आ गया है, तुमको वैसे ही हड़काऊंगी,
क्षमाप्रार्थी हूँ पर मैं बुढ़ापे की लाठी ना बन पाऊंगी।

गलत समझना ना तुम मुझको , मैं कुछ ऐसा कर जाऊंगी,
बूढ़े हो कमज़ोर नहीं, तुमको यह एहसास कराऊंगी,
जब तुम होगे एकाकी पथ पर, नेपथ्य से साथ निभाऊंगी
क्षमाप्रार्थी हूँ पर मैं बुढ़ापे की लाठी ना बन पाऊंगी।


कोख | Kokh





कोख | Kokh


देखो न माँ आज खुशियों ने कुंडी सी खटकाई है,
तुझसे मिलने दूर देश से नन्ही परी एक आई है,
मैंने सोचा मुझसे मिलकर तुम बहुत अधिक हर्षाओगी,
मुझको अपनी गोद मे पाकर फूली नही समाओगी।

मैंने सोचा तुमसे मिलकर मैं तुमको थोड़ा सा सताऊंगी,
और कभी फिर तुमसे छिपकर दूध मलाई खाऊँगी,
जब मुझको डाटोगी तुम तब रूठूँगी इतराउंगी,
फिर चुपके से तुमसे लिपटकर तुम संग मैं सो जाउंगी।

पापा के संग मैं भी एक दिन सब्जी मंडी जाउंगी,
और वहां से झोला भरकर सेब संतरे लाऊंगी,
झोला फटा देखकर मेरा उनको गुस्सा आएगा,
मीठी सी मुस्कान बिखेर तब उनको मैं मनाऊंगी।

पर माँ पापा अब मामला इससे  इतर कुछ लगता है,
बेटी हूँ मैं तेरी पर मुझको तुमसे डर कुछ लगता है,
आज लड़की होने की कीमत फ़िर शायद मैं चुकाउंगी,
क्या एक बार फिर कोख में ही मारी जाउंगी ??

आखिर क्यों | Akhir Kyon



 

आखिर क्यों | Akhir Kyon


आखिर क्यों मैं इतना निर्लज्ज हुआ,
जो उनका प्यार भुला बैठा,
जिनकी उंगलियां पकड़ कर चलना सीखा,
लाठी मैं उनको थमा बैठा।

वो कल की ही तो बातें थी,
जब तुम मुझे खिलाकर खाते थे,
ज़िम्मेदारियों का बहाना देकर ,
तुम्हारा अथाह स्नेह भुला बैठा।

वो कल की ही तो बातें थी,
जब तुम हर सांझ मेरी राह जोहते थे,
परवाह को बंदिश समझ कर मैं,
तुमको अपशब्द सुना बैठा।

वो कल की ही तो बातें थी,
जब तुम मेरी खातिर मिट्टी के घरौंदे बनाते थे,
तुम्हारा घर तोड़कर मैं,
तुमको वनवास पठा बैठा।

Saturday, March 9, 2019

Politics, Media & We the Idiots

Politics, Media & We the Idiots

Synopsis: This article is giving an insight into today’s degrading standards of politics & media. It also digs deeper to find the actual reason behind our overall loss of commitment as citizen towards our motherland. I concluded it with a path to improve the current situation through a different perspective.

Politics, Media & We the Idiots

“This article is from a common man to our politicians & media houses.  We know you all play “Eyes Spies” pretty well but we are awake” J

I hope you all felt, that the days get hotter, boiling mercury, rising temperature all indicating towards one thing i.e. change in weather.  Contrary, did you also noticed dramatic changes in politics? Yes, your instinct is right, we the biggest democracy in the world are going into elections in a few months.

Election time, it’s time for us as the citizens of this great country to show our power. Our emotions, our anger gets together to cast our vote & select a good government to serve our motherland for the next five years. Which eventually helps in continuous growth & prosperity of our country & us, right? Yes, we believe so, at least it is our part of the story.

“Tricky part: this fairytale is never that easy” J

It seems pretty simple, what’s the problem?  Well, the problem is the other part of the story i.e. the politicians, which eventually are our leaders & they are the one who actually contests in elections & finally have the opportunity to serve for country & keep our faith.

Again, where is the problem? In my view, our weak commitment blend with corrupt political vision is the problem. Politicians see elections as a game as a war to rule to run to establish themselves to feel that ultimate power. Keep it simple elections are no fairytale but a tactical game & politician’s tries to play with our minds.

Have you ever dig, how we make our mind to cast our vote in the first place? Who are these politicians? Are we that stupid that any tom, dick or harry will come & able to play with our minds?

Ideally during casting our votes decision need to be based on facts i.e. when we select our government, we need to observe it & it’s opposition for the next five years on the basis of its overall performance, its progression on its agendas, its stake on right to speak, freedom of press, sense of safety in the mind of every citizen irrespective of its religions within our democratic society i.e. secularism. In addition to it, no loose talks, maintain a discipline & act responsibly in social space as it directly impacts us & our society.

Do we follow this while logging our vote? No, shame on us. Let’s at least agree to disagree that we are complete emotional fools. We called ourselves educated & still get provoked by politically motivated thrash talks. We make our mind while getting spoon feed from media houses, WhatsApp, the political party drove groups/websites & spread that rumours further through our social spaces without a single effort of fact checking against the same. Our FB/Twitter/Instagram/WhatsApp posts are filled with party agendas with communalism, pseudo nationalism, pseudo-secularism, communists, national vs anti-nationalist, right/left/centre wings, shivering of Pakistan, fake news etc. 


What’s wrong with us? What are we doing for our better future & for our country? Where are we, in our own social space?  Our corrupt politicians are spending crores & crores of money on spreading fake propagandas, Ironically we are helping them by buying & selling it for free through our own social spaces. We are arguing, fighting, drawing line within our own society & smiling on our own debacle.


Who are these politicians? They might be corrupt, dirty, liars, planners, plotters, cheaters but you don’t disagree that they are one of us, our leaders are as good as we are.

We are weak, greedy & self-centred people, even when we think about our motherland, we do so by keeping ourselves as the centre of everything. Please understand, our country will only cherish when we leave our “I” & start using “We” as an epicentre at least on social causes.

Now the question arises, How these politicians or the media houses get the strength to run fake propagandas on bright daylight & completely decomposing the real common man issues? Its answer is simple to understand but hard to digest, we the idiots are their strength. We are happily celebrating our own misery & demise of “Voice of dissent”.

Coming back to elections, ohh yes, what are the real issues? Is it North Korea submarine, Hindu in danger, Muslim in danger, right/left/centre wing, reservation, Indo-Pak war, Gandhi Dynasty or the Ram Mandir?


“Where are we in the real issues under official agendas of political parties? First, we need to respect ourselves & then only we can expect respect from others”

Mark my words, if this election will going to be contested on these random, self-created, agenda driven based fake issues then whoever wins we will eventually lose.

The only solution is to raise your “voice”, stop celebrating political drama & start condemning fake/propaganda driven news & grill them. That will force these political parties to prioritise our issues in their agendas & contest the election on that only. In turn, it will also trigger a sense of urgency between their own parties to perform at least on those issues to showcase it on next election in front of us.



“If things will go this way, whoever tom, dick or harry win this election, we eventually come out as the real winners J











Saturday, December 1, 2018

Letter to MJ(Wife), Breaking Stereotype

Dear MJ,

The best thing happen to me is to born & brought up in my family but that's not my decision i.e. by God Grace. Indeed, I can take credit of the next best thing happened to me & that's selection of you as my life partner. Let's brutally honest about myself, I was restless with lots of ideas but less in patience to understand, how to get them executed? 
I was searching for stability in my life & in turn messing it all up. Thanks to you for letting me understand that "a good meaningful life is like climbing a mountain only having up & down's with no stable surface, searching stability in life is no different than dropping from mountain to a valley i.e. running away from life".
I am having no shame in calling you my better half as you indeed is my better half. I was nobody in past and truly I am nowhere close to perfection now but whatever little I am able to achieve today in my personal or professional life is because of you & parents, you provided me that confidence, I don't have to worry much about anything other than my ideas & work. I know & I believe that you will take care of everything else like day to day obstacles within the family, food, others expectations, relationships, social life etc. You are that good & that's too you are doing it, without any complain i.e. Unconditional Love. 
You have given your love & respect to my family & accepted it as your own & that is/was acknowledged within the family & everyone admires you. I am also thankful to you for our beautiful naughty son & we both are trying our best to raise him well, although it is not even needed to be put in here but I have too, on that front also you are playing a better role than me.
A relationship is not all about daylight, we also have our dark as well. We fight for even the silliest of the things & later discuss it & have a laugh together. This is the learning curve of life & all that's put together make it meaningful. The striking thing about myself is I am the most eccentric person you ever get & that's too seems to be an understatement but credit to you for still treating it as nothing & keeping it simple & plain.
What I said above is no exaggeration but the complete truth. We both have mutual love & respect for each other. You are doing much more than what I had done for you but that doesn't mean, that I love you or respect you any less, everyone has its own calibre to express & perform, I hope you understand what I mean......
You help me to understand everything can be achieved but with a condition that you have the right state of mind & when you truly believe that you can pull this off.

"Perfection is all about learning & understanding from imperfection. A man is not called a man till the point he is brave enough to acknowledge & understand his shortcomings...


Thank you my better half & lover still, "MJ".............




Your Everloving Stupid Husband
"MS"

Friday, November 9, 2018

Life, Gambling & We the Star

Life, Gambling & We the Star



When life is all about ifs & buts, definitely our life is failing with excuses. It's too simple to understand it, basic funda is to try, fail, learn, understand & then try again. Yes, that's it, it's that simple.

Come on but no one finds it that simple, yes that's right too, simply because most of us don't understand this funda & legends don't care :)

Everyone wants to be a hero in his/her own life & again it is thrilling to have a life just like an action/masala movie. Who wants to watch a "documentary"? Even the "biopics" in today's generation are filled with masala & action. If we are that much allergic to real life movies then how can we accept a dull/plain life?

Of course, we want to treat our life as a movie, in which we are the Star, yes that's right that Bigggg Starrrr...

It's lame, we the star are having problems with the movie script Oops with our life. Now the star within us wants to be a scriptwriter too, yes its mesmerizing to be an allrounder. We need to play with the script/life now, as we want to make our life a thrilling masala movie.

Every then & now we start taking chances & gambling with life is the way to go. 

The only problem it has is the original director, GOD. God doesn't play dice & he even doesn't believe in those, who believe in gambling. The reason is pretty basic to understand, God is 16 Kala Sampurna & doesn't make mistakes. Someone who doesn't commit mistakes, never have the opportunity to learn from them & hence he doesn't understand & if someone doesn't understand obviously will not able to do a favour for us even in case he wants too.

God is more like "Shyam Benegal" & help us with pure movies like "Ankur" or "Bharat Ek Khoj". With all our fantasies we want to make "Sabse bada Khiladi" & seriously its neither his cup of tea & nor he is interested in it. Too many conflicts & god decided to left our movie & in the absence of the director, producers to pull their hands from this project.

Now with all our ego, we are like who cares, I am a star & yes a big starrrrrr...

We are all alone to work in this project/movie but even then we keep our head high as we never compromised with our ideas & fantasies, till the point, we realise that it is not a movie but our life damned & we screwed it up.

Life, Gambling & We the Star

Life is not a dream but a reality & we find it too complex & dark to live with. Now we wish that its all may turn out to be a bad dream & we surely wake up & have that simple life again. As Galib said:

Hazaron Khwahishen Aise Ke Har Khwaish Pe Dum Nikle.. Bahut Niklay Mere Armaan Lekin Fir Bhe Kum Nikle...

With all broken dream & fearing reality, we will find evaporation of our ego & then we finally realise "what is photosynthesis". Now "Khatron Ke Khiladi" become "Ramu Kaka" & instead of conflicting with God using dialogues "Mai tujhse kuch nahi mangta" our newly crowned "Ramu Kaka" will complain "Why me God, why me(Mai he kyunnnnnn)...

"It's God turn & now he will not give a damn to it, he seriously doesn't care. The only kind words which enchant our ears are "you deserve it MF...

But you see once a star is always a star, failing is not final. We have our own excuses for each & everything, again as I said life is all about ifs & buts for a failure.


Life, Gambling & We the Star


Thursday, October 25, 2018

Survival Of The Fittest, Why ??

SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST




I found this as an interesting topic & it seems to be the ultimate truth of life, but is it actually? Let's try to dig deeper & find out.

Survival # On first look, it reflects the fight for existence, It gives us a healthy feeling of competition. It feels good to fight & to succeed. Its approach is aggressive & of an optimist.

If you look into most of the theories based on life, those theories always come to the conclusion that in this world those survive or exist who are the strongest, fittest, Quickest & sharpest.

One of the most popular theories in Science is Darwin theory. Consider as a Landmark in the "Evolution of Science".

Darwin Theory Conclusion-- Survival of the fittest.

The logic behind Darwin theory-- They have the vision, they have the speed & they have the power.

Is it the ultimate truth? If yes, then the percentage of fittest is less than 1%, then what the rest 99% will do. Most of us are not the fittest, not the quickest, not have that much vision & by no mean the strongest.

If we go by above theory, it is pretty much clear that most of us are not supposed to do things in a big way, we are not supposed to tackle difficult situations & neither supposed to be a part of revolution, which is/will be responsible to force people to think or work in a different way or to change the existing mindset/pursuit.

I respect this theory & I agree that it is partially true but it is not the complete truth. Nature is always fair & square with everyone; Fate doesn't do partiality.

Why these theories always look to one end of the coin, where is the other end? It seems these theories are inspired by Hindi movie Sholay. It looks, the author love to play with Jai coin before practising these theories.

SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST

Like everyone, I also have my point of views to prove worthy of my words. I completely believe in the story of tortoise & the rabbit, I also firmly believe in the movie named as "Rocky". As per survival theory, portrayed characters on those stories were bound to lose, they supposed to show their back & get the hammering but that never happened. My point of having belief on both of them is not only because they won their respective battles but, also because they were able to overcome their fear/challenges & as underdogs they kept on fighting till the very end irrespective of the odds. Due to all this, they were able to beat those who were Quicker, stronger & sharper than them.

Above reasoning shows, "one who never give up, more often than not wins, Irrespective of the ability of the opponent".

The logic behind my reasoning- Nature is such that nobody in this world is perfect, everyone has their own flaws. The strongest is not the fittest; fittest is not the quickest & true for all other qualities as well. Even the abilities of a genius are limited to a particular trait.

How is it helpful for us rest/average people?  In this competitive life, we need to prepare us as per the best of our abilities & always keep in mind that we need to fight until the very last. We need to believe that even against the people who are very best in their traits, we have our chance.

If we believe on above, what will go to happen?  Everyone will start their respective battle/competition with their strength, you will definitely get the hammering at the beginning against the more stronger opponent but if you keep your never die attitude with you & if you hang on & doesn't lose your focus. Your stronger challenger may get frustrated & may deviate from his strength/game plan & try to do things differently. That will be your chance to try to pull that game in your favour, you will succeed more often than not.

So next time if some of those people don't believe in you. Call you an average/mediocre, don't feel disheartened, just give them a warm smile & prepare for the situation. "Always remember that your actions will always roar louder than your words".

"Existence & survival are not patents to them who are the Quickest, the strongest & not even to them who are the fittest but only those survive/exist who never give up & who actually believes that they can & they will make a difference"



SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST


It is hard to be a Man, Really ??

Hard to be a Man




As a male child (gender specific), We have born perfectly fine but when we grow with age down the line, we fantasies by the term "Manliness". Unknowingly, the very first thing which comes to our mind in relation to it is we are male; hence we must possess every quality to gain "Manliness". While trying to achieve so, we always keep on adding taboos to it, like man has no fear, man cannot cry/man shed silent tears, man does not show his pain, being manly we must borrow the load of everything, man cannot fail or made mistakes, life is a battlefield & man need to keep on fighting till he won & man is this/that & many more.

Keeping above things in mind, it seems really difficult to be a Man, let’s work on facts:

The man has no fear # It is perfectly fine to have some fear, I am quoting Karna from Mahabharata:

When Shalya(Sarthi of Karna) asked Karna don't you get fear by seeing roar of Arjuna Gandeev(Arc), Karna replied yes I am fearful while seeing Chariot driven by four white horses, Arjuna as fighter, Krishna as his Charioteer but my fear is keeping me conscious, awake & motivating me to fight with the best I have.

Hard to be a Man

Man cannot cry/Man shed silent tears# It is perfectly fine to show off your emotions with your loved ones, once in a while. Keep them beside you, they are the most precious jewel you ever have & they are with you in your thick & thins for a reason. Show them your love & affections & yes your emotions as well. They will motivate you & when two or more brains work together results will come.

Man does not show his pain# You are not built of Iron, you are human & there is nothing wrong in being a human. You can show your pain, the only thing that matters is how you get up & react to it that will seal your fate.

Being manly we must borrow the load of everything# Yes if you are single but if you have a family & you are doing so, then you are fooling yourself. Your parents will always guide you in the right way, you will not go wrong even a bit if you keep listening to their advice. If you are married, your wife will always be your best supporter & your worst critic, you must understand that we called her our better half for some reason, you must share & see the change.

Man cannot fail or made mistakes# it is the biggest joke of the decade, Albert Einstein once said: "A person who never made a mistake never tried anything new". You must do made mistakes to learn & to understand.

Life is a battlefield & Man need to keep on fighting till he won# Yes, life is a battlefield but you must remember that we are human & we have our limits while keeping our self always in switch on mode make us tired/exhaust quickly. We cannot win our life battle in such a way. In order to maintain continuity, we must maintain a balance. We can't keep our self-switched on every time, we have to realize when to switched on & when to switched off & then when to switch on again. We need to enjoy life, we need to see the sunshine, nothing harms to have laughed to crack jokes & to see this beautiful world in relaxing mode.


You need to understand that we are no "16 kala sampoorna" i.e. only Lord Vishnu, We are not the Ironman either. We are humans & our fate is not dependent on taboo like this. Our fate totally depends on how tough we are mentally, how long we resist & how we learn from our failures/experiences, keep faith in your dreams & believe yourself!!


I am aware that now some of you will find, all my reasoning above highly debatable & you might say that I am exaggerating the facts or showing fanaticism over reality but again the word "Manliness" is itself a fanaticism term on its own. At last Be Normal & act as a human!!

Hard to be a Man

I Don't Fear Your Opinion, I Know Who I am

I Know Who I am






Do you ever realize, in our lives, most of the opportunities went unaddressed due to the fact that we are always conscious/fearful about what others will say or react to it? Before moving ahead, let's agree on the fact "fear is not good for success".

It is something which is fed to us, when we are growing as a child. It starts at home with Parents "Sharmaji ke bache dekho kitna padhte hain, ek tum ho cricket se subah aur cricket se shaam, fail hojaoge, Log kya kahenge(LKK), jag hasai karaoge". Same also haunt us during our school tenure when our teachers compare us with other studious students (If we are not top notch) of our class & say see how they are doing & then see how you are doing, "Zindagi me kuch karna hai ya yehi karna hai jo kar rahe ho, apne parents ko kyon dhoka de rahe ho & others in class start whispering, Ganda baccha". If we are good at studies then the fear of expectations (teachers/parents) & what others will say will always be there. The movie named "Taare Zameen Par" is an excellent example. Instances may change but somewhere down the line; it may end up covering the story for everyone.

Down the line, when we grow as an adult, we always have that LKK syndrome playing in the background & now the circumstances will be different. Now we are more conscious about how we look? How we behave? How is it to react like this/like that? What do others think about it? What others say about it? While trying to play safe, we start doing the thing which doesn't come to you naturally & it is obvious that we are not good at it. We start doing mistakes & creating trouble for us & down the line we even go more conscious about these things.

We might be good in singing/dancing/writing/sports & we may be passionate about it but we never seriously tried to have a career on this as if I fail "log kya kahenge, parent’s ke expectations ka kya hoga". So to avoid it, we again play safe with our career & try to have a decent job i.e. Naukri & that is the end of our constructive vision, because at that time we like something else & just to avoid "hard way", doing something which we don't want to do & don't have any vision about it.

Next stage, we grew older as be Man/Woman, We feed the same to our children & they do what is expected of them.

Reading all of you may argue with me that I am exaggerating the facts & dragging it too long. I know everything mentioned above is not applicable to everyone but again by giving multiple examples, I tried to touch maximum individuals I can. It is a generic problem & better to call it a syndrome or taboo. It will make us a different individual all together which we never want to be. Trust me even then other will say what they have too & you will be fearful all your life just because to avoid that altercation.

Some of you may advocate the fact that what is wrong with it? we have a settled life, we are earning good & we also are able to maintain a good work/life balance & tumhare paas koi kaam nahi hai sivaye ungli karne ke. Ok, I have a counter question then, what is the difference between us & animals? they are also doing what is good for their survival & we are no different, just by virtue of looking different do we have the right to call us human? I don't consider it as determining factor. With this attitude, we don't dare to call us as superior species. Our Ancestors not by looks but by creation by innovation by thinking by using their brains, by their daring nature & continuous efforts proven our-self as superior species over others.

Who I am

A few years back, I was no different & faced the same problem; I was reserve & even shy sometimes. It is more to do with consciousness syndrome "LKK" although I was doing good as per whatever expectation I was having that time but somewhere inside I was unwell, I was burning like a volcano, I was flowing like a river but from outside its all normal/safe like a deep ocean at the shore.

During that phase with time I realized "when I am less strained with expectation, I always deliver more". Self-realization is the key, it was the missing link & it will solve most of our problem & kill that "LKK syndrome". One wise man & that's me once said: "Till the time you don't take yourself seriously don't expect from others, think highly of yourself as everyone will believe you if you challenge them to their limits".

Problem is we don't give time to self, we tried to give our opinion in each & everything & conscious about the same from others as well but most of the times we are not brave enough to listen to our inner core. We need to understand our self-first. I always said, "Either you fear or you dare, the choice is always yours". We need to understand "who I am".

I choose the hard way, I decided to check my limits, if I will give a design, It will be without a single flaw, If I have to take a stand for what I believe, I will take, If I want to blog, I will blog, If I want to express feeling in Shayari, I will do Shayari, If I have to do counselling for someone, I will surely do it. What do others think about it? What their opinion is? Or what others will say about it? I couldn't even give damn to it.

I know I am pretty good whatever I am doing & whatever I will do & I will keep challenging myself to check my limits & one thing is pretty sure "Sky is the limit".

We need to understand "If we have some passion, we need to protect it & need to work on it to improve it even better. Others who have any business about it & what they never able to achieve in their life will try to discourage us, try to demotivate us, again the onus is always on us how we take care of our thoughts & how mentally strong we are to deal with it & keep moving forward.

The catch is "always take care of your thoughts, sooner or later you will definitely finish the line as a winner at least in your own eyes".

I always believe, "Time may get tough but I will smile knowing the fact, I am stronger today then I was yesterday & I will be stronger tomorrow then I am today".


I am loving my life, I spend time with me & that is why I am aware who I am :)




Who I am

Believe me, you will not lose? Motivation

Believe 



Digging into life, the biggest challenge we face is fear of failure (FOF). "Choor yaar lagta hai nahi ho payega, Jo kar raha hai karta chal". Sometimes "Bhai kismat kharaab hai", Next time “Bhai usne wo course kar rakha hai isne ye kar rakha hai, hume kaun puchega”. We always look into who are others? what others do? To find many more excuses. Why we never asked ourselves, who I am? My strength, my weakness, how can I improve? Why we forget, that most successful people and so-called fathers of inventions are mostly all school/college dropouts. They are able to do it, due to their positive attitude & talent.

Hum haar ke dar se, Kuch yun khoye rahe..
Manjil samne the, aur hum soye rahe..
Majboor thi Kismat bhee, kya deti sath humara..
Hum aankhein band karke, Yuhin naseeb par roye rahe......

Sometimes, we take ourselves too seriously, what if I failed? Everybody knows, nothing will happen but yes we will learn & grow & be a better man next time. Do most of us follow? No, why? It is due to fear of failure (FOF), we all know but don't want to understand this.

"One thing is as clear as crystal, Fear is not good for great"

We want instant results, Like "two minutes noodles", like "Crash course" "like boot camp” & many more. All fast food chains like Mac Donald’s, Dominos, and Subway are all beneficiaries of this weakness of us. Even during the first step, we are desperate to get the results, that is not because we are not aware of the process but due to the fact, we don't want to lose after giving that much time & efforts to it. We lack the patience to go through the tough times & improve ourselves.

"We need to understand every failure, looser & quitter has one thing in common, they ignored two most precious lessons of life... Persistence & Patience"

Due to FOF, we tried to do things in "safe way". "Yaar isko aise he karte hain, panga kaun le". "Leave it, Bhasad hai yaar, koi aur dekhega". Let me tell you, it is the most unsafe way to deal with this. We tend to start avoiding each & every opportunity & challenge which we believe is difficult & may prove out to be a failure. The result we never try, we never learn, we never improve, hence we never grow. A wise man once said:

"A person who never made a mistake never tried anything new"

Let me tell you, there is nothing wrong with failure, in fact, it will help us to groom ourselves, it is nothing but the life experience, and it is the most precious jewel. We fail, we learn & we become wiser & we understand, then only we are able to implement what we want too.

"If necessity is the mother then for me failure is the father of all inventions"

Don't be afraid of failure just do what you love to do, you may fail, you may fall, people may laugh at you, you may feel down, you may cry but never quit. The positive side is you will feel good about yourself; you will be better & wiser man next time. Keep your competition with you, nobody else matters. There is no guarantee that you will succeed next time but yes you will perform better that is for sure.

"I am not in competition with anyone but myself, my goal is to learn & improve myself continuously"

If you still think, from where you will get the inspiration? Go nowhere, talk to yourself more often & you will feel less afraid of failure. A true man once said:

“Talk to yourself at least once in a Day, otherwise you may miss a meeting with an EXCELLENT person in this World.”

Believe

Still puzzled, here is your answer # I am a father, I observe my son carefully, I am seeing my son grow every day, what amazes me is that when he was infant he doesn't know how to move? he kicks his leg & tries to lap through with his arms. He failed 100 times but he never stops doing so, eventually, he mastered it. Then when he grows a little bit older, he doesn't know how to stand straight. even then, he tried his level best to run with a smile. As a caring father, I was afraid for him, he fell 1000 times, he cried, he gets injured but he never stop doing so & that's too with a smile & eventually, now he mastered how to run. He is not aware how to talk, but he is trying hard with his slangs "te taa, mu, mutu, dudoo, papa, mama, baba, dadi, duzoo, Dua, Nani, Sacha, lite, mankha, mansi, toot gaya & many more". He is giving his best, with all he has. He is just a rookie right now, knowing him so well, I am aware that surely & steadily he will master it as well. If my son(an infant), he knows nothing, he has no experience can do it. Why can't I? He is my inspiration. He is a fighter, Why can't I? I am his father, I will lead him by my example & I will give it all it takes to raise him good.

"Time may get tough but I smile knowing the fact I am stronger today, then I was yesterday & I will be stronger tomorrow, then I am today"

Since I have done mistakes, sometimes I lost miserably; nothing is expected of me, so why should I fear? I have no ego, I am always a beginner, and I am always ready to learn, as I am no one but a student of life. Always remember:

"I came here as no one, I have nothing to lose, everything here is an opportunity & WIN"






Believe

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